Two sides of the same coin
…I could understand fear of failure that might cause someone to hold back but the fear of success. I thought about it, why would a fear of being successful cause one to hold back to that extent. …
Perceptions
…I know many persons will say it’s by design because God doesn’t make mistakes and everything happens for a reason. Is that really true? Does everything really happen for a reason or do things just happen by accident? Are there really accidents?…
Competing interests
…The things in your life that you consider important do change and you have to be careful that they don’t end up really being someone else’s interests and not your own…
Listening
…I was talking to a friend who said to me, do we really listen to that voice or is it ignored? I will let you know at some times in my life I have ignored that voice and sometimes I have been given a big hit upside the head. As my mom would say, “when you don’t hear you will feel.” …
Plans
…Planning isn’t trying to control everything but trying to have things in place and ensuring you can mitigate as many risks as possible. …
Worrying
I’m learning how to continue to plan for everything but separate it from worrying about what might happen. It takes a while to get to the stage where we just let things go and just ride with the flow.