“Eat, drink and be merry, as you never know what tomorrow brings.”

 

– N. J. Farquharson nee Roberts (1945-2009)

(My Mom)

“Never look back on your life and say if only I had, look back and say I did.”

 

– E. F. Atkinson (1945-2017)

(My Dad)

Latest Takes

Too much

…Do we push ourselves toward something that feels bigger than us, even when we are not entirely sure how we are going to get there?  Or do we stop because there comes a point when we have to recognize that something may simply be beyond what we can manage?…

Scope

…how could my scope be too small? As the person explained what they meant, I began to understand. They weren’t talking about whether I was open-minded. They were talking about how big I was willing to think…

Consistency 

…We often admire the finished product without appreciating the countless ordinary days that made it possible. We celebrate the success but overlook the discipline that quietly built it. Many people want the destination, but not everyone is willing to take the journey. Sometimes we expect opportunities to fall into our laps like manna from the sky…

Preordained 

…If everything is already preordained, why do our decisions seem to matter so much? Why do acts of kindness open one door while bitterness closes another? Why does discipline often produce different results than complacency? Why do two people, given similar opportunities, sometimes end up living completely different lives?…

All in Its Time

…The timing always makes me pause.  Was God gently holding me back because it wasn’t the right season? Or was I simply seeing the results of months, or even years, of quiet effort that I couldn’t appreciate while I was in the middle of it?  Maybe it’s both…