Why worry when most of it won’t happen anyway. I guess it’s human nature to fret when it’s not necessary. If I sat ruminating on what could happen I would never live my life at all as everything would be focused on worrying that I might get sick.
The thing I noticed was when I push off persons trying to hijack my day for their own benefit I got more done. Do you agree? Or is it that your day is owned by others no matter how hard you try? How do you make the change? Is it even possible to make the change if you don’t own your hours? Would it make a difference?
Think about the feeling of not having to be near the persons that cause you stress. But is it the person that causes you the stress or is it your intense dislike of them that creates the stress?
He and I argued a lot because I just figured he was not the boss of me and so therefore should not be telling me what to do. He didn’t care that I was grown. The fact is I am my father’s child and I figure that’s why we butted heads just a little too often.