It’s the only time of year that you will have some persons showing that they are not as unapproachable and gruff as they appear the rest of the year. Is it a front or do they allow the festivities and feelings of the Christmas to just take them over and or overwhelm them?
You can’t blame you attitude to life on anyone but yourself. Think about it. How is it someone else fault that you see nothing good in anything that happens to you? How is it their fault that you are ungrateful?
It’s all about saying Yes to the things that makes sense for you and saying No to the ones that don’t. Again it’s all about you, nobody else.
The mind can only focus on one thing at a time. If that is fact then why am I trying to do so much that I am split in so many directions?
Why not just wallow in your own misery, anger etc and not try putting your poison out to everybody else that’s around you. I know we all know at least one person that is like that.
I never found it hard to be by myself, I was alone but never lonely.