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When I was growing up my mother always had a saying when something happened and she tried to get to the bottom of it. “There are two sides to every story, your side, my side and the truth.” That always stuck with me. I never really grasped the full meaning until later in life when I would be on the opposite side of someone in an argument. That’s when you realize that everybody thinks they have the truth on their side. My side is always in the right and I will put whatever pressure I can on you to make you accept it. What happens in many instances is that there is tremendous push back as I won’t accept your views and you won’t accept mine. Impasse!!! Can you relate?

How do we get to the truth?🤔. I have wondered but haven’t fully figured it out. What about you, do you know or do you even care? Are you one with blinders on and have no peripheral vision? Without seeing outside of your little world that you created how do you get an appreciation of what others think? Maybe they are right and that is the truth. How will you know if you hang on only to your views and biases like a little bull terrier? Maybe I’m being too open minded or maybe naive. I wonder. What do you think?

The thing about it is that very often none of the sides have the truth but it’s out there. Not even certain if it will “set you free.” Actually do you even want it to or will you hold on to your views thinking that is the truth? You know the thing that always shows the truth? Time. And in many situations when revealed it still looks like a fallacy. We still hang on to our version of the truth come hell or high water.

So do you agree with my mom, there is your side to the story, my side and the truth? I really want to know what you are thinking, and I know others do too. Try commenting 👍🏽, but if you are not comfortable, reach out to me via any medium. Your comments let me know how you feel and very often give me a total different perspective on the topic. 😉. And you can never tell your comment might help others.

Always remember life is for living and you must always live your best life. #lifeisforliving #liveyourbestlife.

See you next Wednesday at 8:00 pm, Bogota time.

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