I have always heard that you shouldn’t take anything said to you personally, especially when said in what you think is malice, but is it as easy as it sounds? It’s said that persons will do and say things that really concerns themselves not you, meaning it’s about them not you. That’s hard to really see as their words can hit like bullets. How do you really allow it to run off you like water off a duck’s back? When and how do you get to the stage where the words of others don’t make your life a living hell. Some people revel in making other persons life hell by their words and their behavior. Some are not even aware of what they are doing, but others are fully aware and think it’s fine to treat persons as less than human. Always remember karma, what you give will always come back to you. It might take a while but believe me it does come back. I believe in karma. Granted she takes a while to do her job sometimes, but believe me she will. Take heed. 🤔
The best way for me is to feel grateful for all you have and all that you will receive. You all know how I feel about gratitude. Without it life would be very hard. Just being grateful for my family, friends etc have made such a difference and so the toxic behavior of others have stopped affecting me. Their thoughts and behaviors are not allowed to permeate my peace. It took a while but I’m getting better at ignoring the naysayers. What about you, are they still getting under your skin or bouncing off?
When you are sensitive it’s hard to really not allow what others say to hurt and think it’s directly pointed at you. How long does it take to really get to the point where you are able to ignore what is said by others? Do you ever get to that stage or is it a dream? I’m still on that journey, I’m not certain when I will get there. Actually I don’t think there is the end. I have learnt that it can be done. It take focus and a tremendous belief in yourself.
Negative persons will always try to pull you down by belittling things that you do or say. If you allow them to always get to you life will never be pleasant. I know them and so do you, nothing you do is good enough. You have to get to the point where you can just ignore them and say what I do “tomorrow for you.” Just let it roll off or you will always be worried about what others have to say. Some will say develop a thick skin. I’m truly getting there. You know the best thing about it. I couldn’t tell the last time I had a migraine because someone upset me to the point where I so wanted to beat them 😣. Yes that would cause some serious headaches back in the day. I guess the headache was triggered because I couldn’t beat them. Frustration can lead to all kinds of ailments 😔. But I have come a long way. It takes a lot of work to get there. Try and you will get there.
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Always remember life is for living and you must always live your best life. #lifeisforliving #liveyourbestlife.
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