When we decide the changes we will make in our lives and how we will make them it should be noted that we do this for ourselves and no one else. We should make changes for what we want done in our lives and should not be dependent on what others think should be happening.
When we allow others to determine what’s right, best and important for us then we lose all self respect and control. You’re not being selfish thinking that what you want is the most important thing for you. You are being kind to yourself.
It’s strange but as I was getting used to 2023 here come 2024 like a bullet train. Sigh, what to do? I will just embrace it and hold on for dear life.
I have seen persons holding on to things that might have happened to them ages ago and wonder why they always feel down. Sometimes we have to just let it go and allow ourselves to heal.
You can’t blame you attitude to life on anyone but yourself. Think about it. How is it someone else fault that you see nothing good in anything that happens to you? How is it their fault that you are ungrateful?
The thing I noticed was when I push off persons trying to hijack my day for their own benefit I got more done. Do you agree? Or is it that your day is owned by others no matter how hard you try? How do you make the change? Is it even possible to make the change if you don’t own your hours? Would it make a difference?