I had to make myself happy, no one else can. If you push your happiness onto someone else to do for you then you will be surely disappointed. You have to take it a day at a time. That is why your days have to count. How do we make those days count?
When we decide the changes we will make in our lives and how we will make them it should be noted that we do this for ourselves and no one else. We should make changes for what we want done in our lives and should not be dependent on what others think should be happening.
When we allow others to determine what’s right, best and important for us then we lose all self respect and control. You’re not being selfish thinking that what you want is the most important thing for you. You are being kind to yourself.
It’s strange but as I was getting used to 2023 here come 2024 like a bullet train. Sigh, what to do? I will just embrace it and hold on for dear life.
It’s the only time of year that you will have some persons showing that they are not as unapproachable and gruff as they appear the rest of the year. Is it a front or do they allow the festivities and feelings of the Christmas to just take them over and or overwhelm them?
I have seen persons holding on to things that might have happened to them ages ago and wonder why they always feel down. Sometimes we have to just let it go and allow ourselves to heal.